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When I was younger, nobody could take the first position from me until I completed primary school. I gained admission to the secondary school I attended based on my merit, but unfortunately, my academic performance declined.

I was in need of assistance because I couldn’t comprehend how I had become just slightly above average.

My aspiration was to study Medicine, but when my WAEC results were released, I had a disappointing grade in Biology—a significant setback.

My late father (God bless his soul) made every effort to keep me occupied, so I enrolled in A levels. While pursuing A levels, I received admission to study Civil Engineering.

My first year in university was a challenging period due to the struggles I faced in balancing my social life, prompting my father to arrange a transfer to a university closer to home.

In my second year, I joined the new institution where everyone had settled into their own social circles within the class.

Staying resilient

I experienced difficulties with acceptance and was frequently upset, which also affected my academic performance. I had a few courses that I had to retake until my fourth year, leading to an additional semester in school.

While my classmates were out serving their country, I remained in school, diligently writing exams to meet the required grade point average for graduation.

Finding success

Alhamdulillah, I achieved a second class lower division and eventually completed my service with the second batch.

Although my certificate did not indicate the extra semester, the only disparity between my classmates and me was time.

To those currently struggling with academics, I implore you not to become frustrated or depressed. Keep putting in your best efforts, and with time, success will come.

And to parents, please refrain from comparing your child’s academic performance with that of others. Each child has their own unique journey and will evolve at their own pace.

P.S. The teachers of my children often disapprove of how I handle their academic reports every term.

I am proud to be on team #Omo Ti Oku, O fail which means a child that had not died has not failed.